Everyone has the right too be who they want to be without having to meet too a set of guidelines. If you want to be gay, be gay. If you want to collect stamps till you're in your 50s, collect stamps till you're in your 50s. If you want to dance the funky chicken at the bus stop in the morning, dance the funky chicken.
It makes me sad that there is still this stigma against being different. And I for one, hate it.